When I was 26 years old, I attended an inspiring workshop for women given by a man about men and relationships. This was before that mars book came out so it was totally new information for me. I left inspired thinking that I had all the knowledge and I would finally be able to have a great relationship ? I had figured men out.
As my single years progressed, I realized just knowing about men and how to act was not the key to my success in love. I had the rules down, I knew how to flirt and I was an online dating master.? There was never a shortage of men in my life but the problem was that I was following rules to attract an average unconscious guy who wasn?t my ideal match, not my extraordinary love.
What turned my love life around wasn?t learning the secrets of men in general, but to get to know just one man ? my Inner Adam?. This powerful part of your psyche is like a file that keeps all of your interactions with the opposite sex, starting with your father, brothers, uncles, male classmates, first love, and all romantic relationships. Once I transformed this inner man to match my ideal of love, I was able to attract Roberto who mirrored what I truly wanted.
Men have an Inner Eve? that brings them their perfect match like two pieces of a puzzle that fit together. You think you are attracted to someone because of his or her looks or personality, but the truth is that you are unconsciously drawn to their inner opposite as they are to you.
Most relationships do not last or are filled with drama because these two unconscious parts are related to each other with all of their unmet needs and emotional imbalances. You can never take rejection personally because they are seeing you through the filter of their Inner Eve ? (or Adam).
When I changed my relationship with my father, it was such a deep change in dynamics that it blew apart the old paradigm of my Inner Adam. Instead of fearing emotional intimacy with men, I was able to open my heart with honest, direct communication. It felt to me like my little girl finally got that hug and acknowledgment from her daddy that she yearned for her entire life.
By changing my Inner Adam, I was then led through a serious of empowering choices to say goodbye to the Mr. Wrongs of my life and I met Roberto, my ideal love, less than two months later. If I had known this was the key, I would have started here instead of wasting all those years on surface dating advice.
No matter how many heartaches you have encountered or how long you have been single, you can change your Inner Adam so that you can attract a man with an ideal Inner Eve. If you missed our free teleclass this month on this subject, click here to listen to the replay and enjoy the free Inner Adam meditation.
Source: http://attractlovecoach.com/only-man-you-need-to-understand-in-relationships/
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